When you have the willingness to seek out answers to stop premature ejaculation, chances are those answers will find you soon. You can understand more than anyone else just how low-spirited, and even depressed, you can get if you ejaculate prematurely in bed. Your partner will not be satisfied, though they may try to hide it for your sake. And if you come to know the fact, it’ll add to the pain.
Here’s a few things you can try out. Let it be the first step you take to control premature ejaculation.
- Exercises like Kegel and ballooning help enhance your penile strength and its ability to stay erect for a long time. These exercises, if performed regularly, will see to you gaining marked control over how soon you ejaculate. This helps you master the muscles in your genital regions and you can now take your time with sex as the exercises enhances your stamina also.
- There are other ways you can call upon to stave off that inevitable ejaculation for long enough to get the most out of sex. Try to avoid thinking certain things inside your head, because not everybody can control the flow of their thoughts and this often ends up with people thinking all the wrong things and unable to get it out of their mind. Try looking at stuff instead, like the wall or the corner of the bedroom, whichever is closer to sight soon. You need only do this for a couple seconds and your ejaculation is delayed as a result of your shifting attentions.
- There are several sexual positions available to you as an individual. Among these, there are many that highly turn you on. Until you’ve fully learnt to control your premature ejaculation, stay away from these. Instead pick the ones that you aren’t much drawn to, but do turn you on as well. These will greatly help you keep from cumming too soon.
- Timing is everything when it comes to controlling premature ejaculation. So, gain an understanding about yourself and the times when you cum too soon and when you take longer. These key observations will come in great handy when you are about to have sex with your girl, because you’ll then be familiar with the mood you’re going through and kinda anticipate cumming too soon or late.
- When you are with your partner, be sure that what you do affects them too. When you soon learn to keep your premature ejaculation in check, you will realize that you can satisfy your girl to the fullest, and thereby get satisfied in the process. This is no mean thing, and to help you get here sooner you need to talk to your girl about your little problem. It’ll be a huge load taken off your shoulders, you’ll have enlisted help from the one person you get intimate with, and you can be freer and less anxious as a result of such sharing.
True embarrassment lies in the act of ejaculating prematurely. The techniques mentioned above and the communication suggestion that came last all work to eliminate such awkwardness and guilt from your life.