Keywords come in great handy, especially when dealing with serious issues. Premature ejaculation, to anyone who has experienced it, is one such matter of import to consider. And the word ‘overcome’ is our keyword.
So, getting down to the nitty-gritty, how do you overcome premature ejaculation? It’s not all in your body as it is in your mind. What you think, so you are. As you read the following points keep in mind that they apply to both men and women, no exceptions.
- Any time you feel depressed, low-spirited, or given to moods of self-pity, you’ll still get chances to have sex—no doubt about that—but you won’t perform as well. This is especially true if you have a partner or if you’re married. Your sex life will suffer, because you let yourself go down into depression. You’ll be surprised how a miserable mind can cause the body to ejaculate quickly just to get it all over with. Don’t waste another second of your life. Push or even force yourself to ask for help. You’ll be glad you did. And sex, which is an essential part of your life, will become something welcoming.
- Okay, so you’re not the depressed kind. What if you’re critical? If you keep finding fault with every guy or girl who shows an interest in you, chances are you will ejaculate quickly when you do hook up with someone you like. Because you’ve programmed yourself into thinking that nobody is good enough for you, that mindset causes you to ejaculate prematurely, because you don’t care enough to prolong the experience. You make yourself out to be arrogant from your partner’s perspective, and you become someone who can’t satisfy him/her.
- Know when to ask for help and when to do something on your own. If you can look it up online or in reputed reference books, do that. But, if you feel you need to talk to someone, find them and do so. Being so open-minded and humble will see that your chosen friend or therapist, or even therapist friend, can help you understand your problem.
It may not seem like much to those who don’t go through this issue, but premature ejaculation is a very serious thing for people who do. It adds to their sense of low self-esteem and makes them feel they’re not good enough.
Such emotional consequences sure do prove that this issue needs addressing, and fast. To overcome something, means you conquer it. To conquer, you need to pick up the metaphorical sword and thrust it into the root of your problems.
The metaphors above aren’t intended to mean anything sexual. To conquer is basically to take action and put effort into your decision. You can easily overcome premature ejaculation and begin feeling more confident when it comes to matters of sex. One’s confidence is invested in large part in the act of sexual intercourse.
To succeed in satisfying your man or woman is something everyone needs in order to feel on top of the world. Think better and you become better. What you think, so you become.