Finding fault can take place anytime and in any area of interest. If you’re somebody who thinks less of tricks and techniques that help you last longer in bed, you’re either naturally gifted with long-lasting abilities and are arrogant because of that, or you’re someone who’s actually going through premature ejaculation and have given up on finding a solution to it and taking out your frustrations on the tips that help thousands of others get it right each day, and live a fuller life. Suggestion: be humble if you seek help, or forever hold your peace.
That said, let’s explore a handful of tricks that help you last longer in bed.
- You can yourself imagine the efficacies of introducing the element of laughter in your sex session. This takes a while for some people to grasp, but it is a very valuable addition to your relationship. What does laughter in sex have to do with a better relationship? It creates passion, and here’s how. You got to be a bit comic here, and give in to your sense of humor by doing some really funny things in bed. These can be small stuff or large-scale performances (!), but you get to create laughter in the bedroom, paving the way for romance and passion to take root. This little side-adventure delays ejaculation and you get to last longer in bed with your girl.
- Another cool thing you can try out is the well-timed skill of distraction, which demands you see an ordinary non-sexual object in the room with you before you cum during intercourse. This way, you delay ejaculation time all on your own and increase satisfaction levels for both you and your partner. Look at said objects only for a couple seconds or you’ll get too distracted to get back to sex. It happens, and it’s quite weird how the mind works this way, but it does. So keep your glances to the barest minimum.
- While immersed in sex, in a particular position, try immediately and for no apparent reason changing styles to something you never pre-planned. The sudden shift will break an ongoing rhythm and set you on another path, thereby staving off ejaculation for another few minutes. You get to have fun and at the same time, you get to do so many things during sex. This method is a great way to go about extending your time in bed.
Whatever you try, know that you must attempt them whole-heartedly. None of that bored, just-for-the-heck-of-it attitude, or you will never benefit from any technique that could well be the answer to your ejaculation troubles.
To ensure this, just let go of all your inhibitions and anxieties and start afresh. Wipe the slate clean and you will see a whole new pattern take shape, simply because it now has enough space to do so. In the end, the person who most benefits from all this is you, the premature ejaculator on his bold venture to extend his time in bed with his girl. And you see success, simply because you gave it a shot.